What it Means to Embrace Vulnerability and Hard Work
Allow me to introduce you to Lindsey Kane Leaverton, a single mom, wealth manager, singer-songwriter, and author of the delightfully unconventional "Not Another Self Help Book". Sounds intense, right? Well, buckle up, because Lindsey’s story is a masterclass in crafting beauty from chaos.
Embracing Humble Beginnings and Vulnerabilities
Like many of us creative types, Lindsey didn’t start life in a cozy cocoon of success. No silk pajamas here, folks. This episode dives into the power of embracing those rocky, humble beginnings. Lindsey emphasizes that the scars and battle wounds of our past aren't things to be hidden away. Instead, they are what give depth to our work and substance to our stories.
So how do we embrace our beginnings? The key word here is vulnerability. Be open about your struggles, your anxieties, and your missteps. Lindsey’s openness about her sexual orientation and personality traits resonates with so many who’ve walked similar paths.
Actionable Steps:
1. Start a journal. Write about your past and how it shaped who you are today.
2. Share your story with someone you trust. Vulnerability breeds connection.
The Value of Hard Work and Dedication
Speaking of hard work, Lindsey doesn’t sugarcoat the grit required to create something meaningful. Dedication is the secret sauce, and she’s got a pantry stocked to the brim. Iterating, revising, taking those endless drafts and making something extraordinary—that’s the magic.
Lindsey’s creative process for writing her book was intense, involving long hours, deep dives into personal experiences, and constant rewrites. If you’re not willing to put in the work, you might as well pack up your art supplies and go home.
Actionable Steps:
1. Set a dedicated time each day for your creative work.
2. Don’t be afraid to scrap and start over. First drafts are meant to be rough.
The Right People: Your Tribe
Finding the right people to celebrate and accept you is vital. Lindsey stresses surrounding yourself with folks who understand and uplift you. Think of them as your personal cheerleading squad, minus the pom-poms (unless they’re into that).
She’s leveled up her life by finding her tribe, and she encourages everyone to do the same. Whether it’s through social media, local groups, or creative communities, find those who get you.
Actionable Steps:
1. Join a creative community, online or offline.
2. Attend local events related to your creative interests.
Self-Care: It’s Not Just Bubble Baths
Now, onto something we all love to neglect: self-care. Lindsey shared her practices that help keep the creative juices flowing. She spends time on her back porch, meditates, writes lyrics, and even listens to stand-up comedy for inspiration.
Yes, spending time in self-care isn’t just about bubble baths and face masks (although, who doesn’t love a good bath?). It’s about finding activities that rejuvenate you and give you mental space.
Actionable Steps:
1. Dedicate time each week to a relaxing activity that brings you joy.
2. Incorporate humor into your routine. Laugh. A lot.
Creativity as a Lifeline
For Lindsey, creativity isn’t just an outlet; it’s her lifeline. Whether it’s using her problem-solving skills in her professional life or finding ways to balance family logistics, creativity permeates everything she does. This episode really drives home that creative expression is indispensable for navigating life's challenges.
Actionable Steps:
1. Identify an area in your life where you can incorporate more creativity.
2. Use creative outlets to process emotional hardships. Try drawing, painting, or writing your thoughts down.
Versatility: Left-Brain Meets Right-Brain
Lindsey’s ability to combine left-brain and right-brain thinking is a superpower in her field. From financial strategies to writing poignant lyrics, she has learned to embrace both sides of her brain to create a harmonious life.
If you’re one of those people who think they need to choose between creativity and practicality, think again. Lindsey’s example teaches us that embracing both aspects can lead to extraordinary outcomes.
Actionable Steps:
1. Work on a project that requires both analytical and creative thinking.
2. Embrace your unique approach, even if it seems unconventional.
Final Words
Lindsey’s journey from humble beginnings to finding her tribe and balancing creativity with practicality offers valuable lessons for all of us. Remember, your story, struggles, and the hard work you put in can craft something beautiful. So, pick up that pen, brush, or guitar, and start creating.
After all, the world needs your unique brand of magic.
Actionable Steps Recap:
- Start a journal.
- Share your story.
- Dedicate time for your creative work.
- Find and join creative communities.
- Implement regular self-care activities.
- Use creativity to process emotions.
- Embrace both analytical and creative thinking.
So, what’s stopping you? Your creative journey awaits—take that first step today.
Listen to episode 234 of Creative Chats for my conversation with Lindsey Kane Leaverton.